Grief is a normal response to loss with no fixed timetable, and most people need support rather than treatment.

Mental Health - Connection & life stress

Grief and loss: what is normal and when to seek help

Last updated 5 October 2026. How we write this.

Grief is a normal response to loss with no fixed timetable, and most people need support rather than treatment.

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NICE depression in adults (NG222) - UK evidence-based guidance on recognising and treating depression.
NHS Talking Therapies - Self-referral route for anxiety and depression in England.
Mind - UK charity guides to conditions, treatments and legal rights.
Samaritans - Free 24-hour listening support on 116 123.

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Intense sadness, disbelief, guilt, anger and waves of emotion are expected after bereavement and can return around anniversaries for years. For a minority, grief stays severe and disabling well beyond the first year, which clinicians call prolonged grief and which responds to specific therapy.

What helps most people

Talking about the person, and being allowed to.
Keeping routine, sleep and meals as steady as possible.
Bereavement support from Cruse or local hospice services.
If grief brings thoughts of not wanting to be here, call Samaritans on 116 123, or 999 if you cannot stay safe, and tell your GP. See the GP too if you cannot function for months.

There is no correct way to grieve and no deadline. Support exists for the point where grief stops shifting at all.

If you or someone else cannot stay safe, call 999. Samaritans: 116 123, free, 24 hours.

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